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How to tell when a guy likes you or when he’s just being a dick

(via speech as told to Imerika)

Well, there are a lot of different ways to tell if a guy actually likes you or he’s just being a dick. There are times when guys won’t call you back on purpose and that can come off as being a dick but he could like you.

Imerika: So when do you know if he likes you or if he’s just being a dick?

So he’s calling you, says he wants to hang out with you, flirts with you on the phone but he never hangs out with you. THAT’s when he’s being a dick. He’s playing you.

Imerika: So have you ever played any girls?

Of course.

Imerika: Like?

There was a girl in one of my college classes. And she was cute. But she was too vulnerable, so I didn’t really want anything to do with her, BUT I didn’t want her to like any other guys.

Imerika: Why not? If you didn’t want her, why couldn’t anyone else have her?

I think it’s just the guy being caveman-like.

Imerika: What about her made her vulnerable? What’s wrong with vulnerable?

She was just too easy. She made it too easy. She was always there. Anytime that I actually wanted to hang out with her or call her, she’d be there. Every second of the day I could call and she would answer. I took her out once and nothing happened. But, deep down inside I kinda liked her a little bit, but I didn’t want to do anything with her, but I didn’t want anyone else to have her.

Imerika: That doesn’t make sense!!

It’s just the guy being territorial. It makes the guy feel better I think.

Imerika: Ok, so back to the original question. What other instances are there when guys like girls or when they’re just playing us?

A guy likes a girl when he’ll drop anything to be with her. Not necessarily all the time, because you still have to play the game, but when he goes out of his way to be with you. 90% of the time that means he likes you. For example, bringing you a cup of coffee or bringing you your favorite beverage without even you asking.

Imerika: Do you think the guy should always come to the girl?

No. A girl should put herself out there but not too much.

Imerika: What’s too much?

It would be a two-for-one. Guy does two displays of affection and girls do one. The guy should do more than the girl.

To be continued….

  1. March 19, 2010 at 7:30 am

    Hmm… interesting. Looking foward to the “to be continued”. I’m applying these to TextGuy in my head.

  2. March 19, 2010 at 3:17 pm

    I agree with that last statement a lot. The guy should pursue just a little harder than the girl. Most girls want to feel wanted and I think most girls are also inherently traditional. We want the guy to work for it.

  3. citygirlblogs
    March 21, 2010 at 7:31 pm

    Interesting post! I like the two to one ratio idea. Need to work on that one, though. It’s usually three or four to one for me in the beginning, but once my heart gets involved, the ratio flips and not in my favor! xoxo to you and E

  4. March 25, 2010 at 10:11 am

    Wow, how have I NOT seen your blog before! I follow Refreshingly Honest, so you’d think I would have šŸ˜‰ And It Never Rains in Seattle as well. Anyway, this post was a riot, and I’m going to dig into more posts as well. I write my own blog too – tbdetermined.wordpress.com. Stop by sometime šŸ˜‰

    • March 25, 2010 at 7:36 pm

      I’m just right here! How have you not seen me!

      • March 26, 2010 at 7:21 am

        Haha, clearly šŸ˜‰

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  6. ele
    August 23, 2012 at 12:21 am

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  7. April 30, 2013 at 3:03 am

    What a stuff of un-ambiguity and preserveness
    of valuable know-how regarding unpredicted feelings.

  8. Angie
    May 5, 2013 at 10:06 pm

    What if he talks to you everyday, then one day he doesn’t text back what does that mean?

  9. August 22, 2013 at 5:51 am

    Well I like this guy I work with and we text all the time and I asked him why was he single he said he sucked at it then he kepted telling me that he was a dick

  1. March 25, 2010 at 7:44 pm

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